Sometimes there can be a conflict
Try lowering the importance of the issue – what if it doesn’t really matter? If you think something is too important, you might be causing the issue yourself.
Imagine it resolved – if it was resolved how would it look like?
Focus on what you want to happen? Sometimes less focus on the issue and more focus on what you want to happen – which can be another issue, can resolve it.
The dynamic in relationships can be complex and made of multiple parts.
Often relationships are as much a reflection of ourselves as they are about the other person.
When you change how you look at the world, the world changes.