Having a mission and purpose.
Courage – to go after things.
Self-control and restraint.
Competence – excellent at something.
Continual improvement is the answer to every problem for a man.
Strong.
Emotionally strong.
Responsible.
Reliable – a man’s word is sacred.
I haven’t mentioned women now for a reason. Men are are defined by who they are, and not by their relations with women, which can be a distraction. Having a woman, doesn’t make a man, anymore a man. A man is complete by himself, but a woman can help him to grow and achieve his purpose.
I think a lot of men lose themselves when they chase women. When you focus on your own goals and self improvement, then everything else, such as women, fall into place.
There is too much emphasis on trying to conquer women, and
While I said that men are defined by who they are, not their relation to something. A thing, can also be defined, by what it is not. What is a man not? And what is a woman?
A man provides the structure, security and safety for a woman to be a woman.
A man is not weak.
A man is not anxious, or neurotic.
A man is not aimless.
A man doesn’t ask advice from a woman.
A man is open and loving and positive.
What are your thoughts? What does it mean to be a man?
Here are my thoughts on what it meant to be a man in 2024.
In 2024, I thought that being a modern man is all about self-improvement. In 2025, I believe it is more about inner strength.
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